April 14, 2020
In our relationships we often times make completely inaccurate assumptions. We jump to conclusions, take things personally, look for reasons to be offended, and judge harshly without knowing the other person’s motivation or trying to understand their point of reference. Do you have a relationship in your life right now that is rocky at best, or practically nonexistent due to misunderstandings, miscommunication, wounded pride, or hurt feelings? If the answer is yes and you truly want this person in your life the relationship can be saved. You must decide to be the bigger person in the situation, swallow your pride, and do what is necessary to reconcile.
Both sides are being stubborn but the situation can be resolved for the highest good of everyone involved. There is a serious breakdown in communication. If everyone involved is willing to communicate with compassion, consideration, and heart centered honesty, reconciliation can be achieved. This will require a certain amount of vulnerability from every party involved. Releasing the need to be right, vindicated, or vengeful may feel impossible, but when you ask for help and guidance from your higher power and the angels, miracles will happen. Open your heart to understanding and forgiveness so that you can begin to see the situation from all sides. Letting go of the need to be right creates a space where you can fully listen to what the other person has to say with an open mind and a compassionate heart. If this is a relationship worth saving you must be willing to do what the other may feel incapable of doing.
If this relationship has run its course and truly holds no further love or mutual benefit then release it with forgiveness and gratitude for the valuable experience and lessons learned. Forgiveness of yourself and others is a crucial next step on your path of emotional and spiritual growth and self-awareness. Opening your heart fully healing with love and forgiveness is the key to continuing to the next level of your life’s experience. You can call on archangel Zadkiel and the power of the Violet flame to transmute your past and present challenges into love. Release any unforgiveness you may be holding toward yourself and others so that you can fully experience the truth of who you are. Let yourself experience fully any pain, anger, or discomfort that comes up related to this relationship, past experiences and memories, or previous situations so that they can be processed fully and released completely. Center yourself and your heart space, breathe deeply and focus your attention on the area of your body that is expressing the feelings you need to process. Don’t try to stop the feelings, be present to them, accept them, and acknowledge them as part of your healing journey. Allow these feelings and emotions to run their course as you observe them without becoming entrenched in them or the story around them. When you allow your feelings and emotions the freedom to run their course through you there processed and integrated without the harmful long-term side effects created by reliving and re-experiencing the initial trauma over and over again. Forgiveness will aid you in processing any negative emotions that block your flow of healing energy and cut you off from your divinity and the unconditional love present within all life.
Focus on your breathing, center yourself and your heart be willing to receive a new level of love, light, and joy in your life. Allow all that was, all that is, and all that will be to become infused with divine love and gratitude. Forgiveness may not always come easy, but it will enable you to raise your vibration so that you can remember an experience the full expression of the spiritual being that you are. Forgiveness now paves the way for new and miraculous blessings in your present in your future.
As you release old patterns and pain, practicing forgiveness and gratitude begin to get in touch with your greatest dreams, desires, aspirations, and goals. Journey further inward and feel the callings of your soul. Reawaken the passion within you that longs to come forth in creative form. Give yourself permission to realign with your long-lost dreams and dare to develop them to the limits of your imagination. Smile, dance, and rejoice in everything that makes your heart sing and reignites the firing your soul. Believe with total conviction that everything you dream of you can create. You were born to make manifest the glory of your soul. See with clear vision that you are a holy child of the Creator, endowed with the same creative gifts. You have the power to decide for yourself what you choose to experience, have, give, receive, and become during your lifetime. Choose big, beautiful, blissful dreams and paint them on the pallet of the world as you harness your gifts and reclaim your birthright is a magnificent, glorious, triumphant expression of Creative genius and Divine Life Force energy!
Kathy Best is a Intuitive Living Coach, who combines her experience and knowledge in Nutritional Therapy, Reiki, Quantum Touch, Ho’Oponopono, EFT, Compassionate Communication, Angelic Guidance and Healing, and personal development coaching into individualized programs that help her clients recover their emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual balance so that they can reclaim their divine gifts, redefine themselves, and recreate their lives into the glorious, happy, vibrant, fulfilling masterpieces they were meant to be!
